Beautifully said!
I come from a family of 7 so actually I suppose , statistically speaking, my family is ahead of the game? In all seriousness though, what was strongest in my mind on this topic is an old next door neighbor - 5 marriages at last count.
I don't know about the first 2, but she divorced one for doing drugs. She divorced another after he couldn't work laying carpet anymore because his knees were messed up & she decided he was mooching off of her & kicked him out. The last one she divorced just before we moved - he quit his job because he thought he was being called by God to get into Christian music, and when it didn't go anywhere & he lied to her about it, she decided he was using her and kicked him out.
That last time she was just so totally sure it was God's will, and then when things seemed to get difficult, apparently it wasn't anymore. Where do some Christians get the idea that God isn't going to let them suffer? (Esp. the consequences of their life choices?)
Romans 8:17:
“and if children, then heirs, heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ,
provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him”
And so many of us - me included - run from the cross that we're supposed to be picking up and following him with. But we can't share His glory unless we learn to accept that suffering & offer it up with His -
Colossians 1:24:
“Now I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake, and in my flesh
I complete what is lacking in Christ's afflictions for the sake of his body, that is, the church”
That verse kinda freaked me out when I first heard it. It seems to imply some kind of imperfection in Christ's sacrifice. But I realized it's like the participation of Simon of Cyrene. Jesus didn't go it alone - He had Simon of Cyrene help Him carry the Cross. That just goes to show that it was God's will for us to do our part rather than sit back passively & let Jesus do all the work. He'll do the heavy-lifting of course, but we'd better put in our "widow's mite"!
(And I am slipping heavily into amateur philosopher mode which, since I am not drinking, means I am desperately in need of sleep! Night all!

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